How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Fast: “Driving Seat?”

How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Fast: "Driving Seat?"



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Dear Friends



Who is in the Driving Seat here? You…or your ex?

I am not asking you about who is in control, OH NO! If you want to get your ex back there is a fundamental you really need to get a grip on, and even if you don’t drive a car yourself, you know "about" it. So what then is this "driver’s seat"? Let me explain…



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Now pay attention, follow our help and advice carefully. The analogies I will use here are ones I am sure you are familiar with…



Firstly, the only control you need to exercise is "self" control. As for driving, it is pretty much like driving a car, you sit in the driver’s seat and operate the various controls and the car responds accordingly, right? Right! You will have a very hard time getting the car around the corner without turning the steering wheel, no grey area there, you would have to get out and lift the car off of the road-turn it by hand-and put it down again……or something to that effect



What I am trying to illustrate here is that the controls are in place to make things easier, if you use the correct controls correctly you will have no problem driving the car and getting the result you want from it, press the brake-it stops, press the accelerator it goes and so on



People are not cars or robots, but the principle remains. If you "press the wrong buttons" you will get the wrong results, if you try to force somebody to do something they are not OK with you get a disastrous result…...the human equivalent to a road crash! People have "controls", if you operate these "controls" well, you are assured of good results, do something nice to somebody and you can be quite sure of a thank-you. However, insult a person and you get a big fat slap in the face for your efforts! By the same token, when you are working at getting your ex back, your need to regulate your speed, go too fast and there will be a problem…it may be too late to use the brake-control or the tyres lock and the car skids into a crash! Again, when it gets dark while you are travelling, you turn on the lights, OK? if it gets dark and you turn on the wipers…well, I don’t think I need say more there. Steer a car into a mountain and you get no further, keep it on the road and you get everywhere



When you want to get your ex back, there is a specific plan and direction you can follow, with all the pointers and instructions. Not one us enjoys being forced or manipulated into an action, we enjoy being encouraged and guided and enjoy when it is made to be pleasant and kinda fun. You do not need to control your ex into getting back with you, no, and you are only in the driving seat in so much as you are the one who has learned about how to go about this process so you need to "guide" the process by steering it along the right "roads". You "put the brakes on" at the right time and regulate the speed of the process, you know when to use the "wipers" or the "lights" or even when to "stop the car" for bit



Don’t be discouraged, once you get used to "driving this car" you will understand how and why these "controls" work, once you are on the move it is just a matter of keeping things carefully on the road



We are here with expert guidance and back-up and a regular newsletter and videos to keep you on track. And once you have succeeded? We would LOVE to hear your story and share your new happiness with both of you!



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As a husband and Dad, I truly wish you well in your quest to get your ex back together with you……………long-term!



Kind Regards, Ivan

of ivansemail@telkomsa.net